The Cost of Miscommunication: Reflecting on Lost Friendships

Blog 5

As I sat down to write this week, I found myself struggling to pinpoint a topic. Ideas swirled in my head, but none seemed to stick. That was until I started reflecting on the friendships that have come and gone in my life. This blog post is a culmination of those thoughts, and I’m hoping it resonates with you.

A Lifetime of Friendships

 I’ve been fortunate enough to have had many friendships throughout my life. Some have been fleeting, while others have lasted for years. Those special few, whom I affectionately call my “Best of” friends, hold a dear place in my heart. As a self-proclaimed S.A.P. (Sentimental A** Person), I invest deeply in the people I care about. When I love, I love with all my being. And while I’m far from perfect, I pride myself on being loyal to those who are loyal to me.

The Pain of Lost Friendships

 Lately, I’ve come to realize that many of my friendships have fizzled out. Some ended due to misunderstandings, while others were casualties of my own actions (or inactions). But what’s striking is how often my ex-partner seemed to play a role in driving wedges between me and my friends. It pains me to admit that his intentional hurtfulness often exacerbated the situation. In my darker days, I let alcohol control my life. I wanted to be “fucked up” all the time, and it shows in my past. But as I’ve grown and learned, I’ve come to understand that some friendships weren’t meant to last. Perhaps those friends weren’t in the best place in their lives, or maybe we simply grew apart.

 Moving On

 Some friends have offered closure, and we’ve even rekindled our friendships. Others, however, have chosen not to take accountability for their actions, and I’ve had to accept that they’re no longer part of my life. It’s okay; I’ve moved on. Every day, we meet new people, and life is full of surprises. But it hurts when people are genuinely toxic, hurting others without remorse.

As I reflect on these lost friendships, I’m reminded that relationships are complex and multifaceted. Sometimes, things don’t work out as planned, and that’s okay. What’s important is how we learn from these experiences and grow as individuals.

 I’d love to hear from you: Have you experienced lost friendships or toxic relationships? How did you navigate those challenges? Share your thoughts in the comments below.

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